You do not need to be a different person so that you can be able to attract and go to the process of getting your ex boyfriend back. You might wonder at first that he left you because you are not the person that he wants to be with. It is really hard to get to accept the real reason why you are not together anymore and getting him back takes a lot of courage and may take you to do things that you have not done before. However, you should realize that staying true to yourself is the best solution to get things on your control. Do things your way and do it with your own personal touch. You do not need to ever pretend and change your ways, because in the long run, whether you get him or not, you are the one who will suffer from the consequences of changing yourself. You need to make him realize that you do not need to change anything to be loved.